Dear Anonymous, 

First of all, it’s not wrong to like more than one person. Even if you’re dating someone. 

Second, if you two not seeing each other often is making you think that you’re not going to last long, try meeting up a few times a week. Find time to be with each other on the weekends too. 

Third, don’t ever doubt a relationship with someone. You’ll get paranoid and confused. I was like that just last week, and things started to feel wrong with my boyfriend and I. You’re only pushing that person away from you when you doubt things. Why? I’m not fully sure. It just happens. If you question something, they’ll think you don’t trust them enough. A relationship builds around trust..

Don’t worry too much. Things will get better. & remember, if you break up, things just weren’t meant to be and someone else is waiting for you; there will be someone better.

Stay strong.

Eri.

Dear Anonymous, 

Do you want to go slower? How fast is he going? How long have you been dating? 

If you want go slower, you might want to tell him. That’s an important detail. I guess it all depends on how fast he’s going, and what he’s doing that you don’t want to do. If it’s sex, don’t break up with him, just tell him you’re not ready for that. If it’s kissing, or saying things, maybe it’s time to start those things? It all goes back to how long you have been dating.

If it’s been only a few days, I suggest breaking up. If he’s going so fast in a few days, think about what could happen in the future. 

If it’s been a few weeks, he might not know you, what your into doing, what your comfortable doing. Sit down to him and talk about it. 

If it’s been about 1-4 months… It depends on what he wants to do, again. Kissing, maybe you might want to start those things..? If you don’t, tell him. It might end it bad causes, but at least he knows what your comfortable doing. Sex.. You should kinda know what to do there.

If it’s been 5-almost a year.. I’m not fully sure. 

I guess it also comes back to how old are you both? Who’s older? 

Hope I helped,

Eri.