Dear NeverSayyForever, Any advice on boyfriends that move too fast? :/

Dear Anonymous, 

Do you want to go slower? How fast is he going? How long have you been dating? 

If you want go slower, you might want to tell him. That’s an important detail. I guess it all depends on how fast he’s going, and what he’s doing that you don’t want to do. If it’s sex, don’t break up with him, just tell him you’re not ready for that. If it’s kissing, or saying things, maybe it’s time to start those things? It all goes back to how long you have been dating.

If it’s been only a few days, I suggest breaking up. If he’s going so fast in a few days, think about what could happen in the future. 

If it’s been a few weeks, he might not know you, what your into doing, what your comfortable doing. Sit down to him and talk about it. 

If it’s been about 1-4 months… It depends on what he wants to do, again. Kissing, maybe you might want to start those things..? If you don’t, tell him. It might end it bad causes, but at least he knows what your comfortable doing. Sex.. You should kinda know what to do there.

If it’s been 5-almost a year.. I’m not fully sure. 

I guess it also comes back to how old are you both? Who’s older? 

Hope I helped,

Eri. 

Saturday Feb 2 @ 04:22pm